Day #10 – Grandma’s Shoe Store in Miltenberg and Kaffee und Kuchen (coffee and cake)

Beautiful Miltenberg along the River Main (rhymes with ”mine”)

Miltenberg is a beautiful medieval town. Cruise ships dock for the day so tourists can walk in the woods, see the castle and shop along the old cobblestoned streets. Both my parents came here as children to visit their loving grandmother Selma.

My skinny mother was sent to Cafe Sel to eat Schlag (cream) off a spoon. It was there that we stopped for cake. I was flooded with memories of my New York grandmother as I ate Zwetschgenkuchen (plum cake). Jeffrey had apple strudel (I had a taste), another of her specialties.

Cafe Sel
Plum cake with Schlag (cream) and apple strudel with vanilla sauce.

But I am getting ahead of myself.

We were greeted in Miltenberg by the mayor and his deputy, and gifted with a monogrammed umbrella against the rain.

Deputy Mayor, Mayor, and me.
This old fountain formerly was used for drinking water.

At age nine, my Aunt Charlotte, whose turn it was to visit her Grandma Selma, saved a five year old girl, Elizabeth, from drowning in the river. The newspaper in Miltenberg carried the story in 1932. After the Nazis took power in 1933, my aunt was permitted to stay in the regular school because of her heroism. (She, my mother, and their parents fled Germany for British Palestine later that year.)

This is the original newspaper article that reported Charlotte’s bravery.
My young aunt’s photo made the paper: ”Lotte Steinberger (Alsfeld), nine year old Jewish lifesaver.”

We were welcomed in Miltenberg by Elizabeth’s family! Elizabeth’s nieces Dorothea and Ulrike, together with local Jewish historians Gabriele and Georg and other locals, gave us a tour of the town and the Jewish and family landmarks.

Great-Grandmother Selma ran a Miltenberg shoe store after her husband died. By all accounts, she was an excellent businesswoman and a loving grandmother. Today, the store is a pizzeria.

This is Great-Grandma’s shoe store in 1934. She emigrated to Haifa in 1937. My father stands in the doorway as he looks at his cousin Frieda.

Great-grandma’s shoe store today

My parents talked lovingly of the freedom their grandma gave them to wander in this forest, something I never had done until yesterday.

In the Wald (woods).

At the edge of the woods, outside the city wall, lies the old Jewish cemetery where several of my forebears are buried. The grass is cut twice a year.

Miltenberg’s Jewish cemetery.
Here is our Miltenberg tour group. L to R: Georg, Gabriele, Iris, Nancy, Jeffrey, Ulrike, Toni.

From the fountain we walked to the top of the hill, overlooking the river.

We walked by one of what once were three local synagogues (now there are none), saw salvaged Jewish religious objects in the local museum, and stopped at some of the Stolperstein (“stumbling stones”) that memorialize a few of the Miltenberg Jews who were deported and murdered.

Stolpersteines are 3.9 inch concrete cubes set into sidewalks outside Jews’ former residences. The cubes are topped with brass plates inscribed with the names and fates of Jews murdered in the name of the 1933-45 German regime. One is meant to stumble over the blocks and remember the victims.
This is the Jewish population year by year in Miltenberg beginning in 1794. The number reached zero on 13 August 1942.
This Miltenberg synagogue was destroyed on Kristallnacht, 9 November 1938.
This former synagogue has no signage mentioning the building’s past.
We said goodbye to Miltenberg, a beautiful small town in Bavaria, home to my grandparents and other forebears, a place of joy, love and freedom for my parents—until 1933.

Today no Jews live in this town.

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